i debugged a process but it keep running for infinity and filling the database with the same row
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Then you have a loop in that process. Did you try to move a node from one place to another? If your did not remove all connectors beforehand, this might create a loop.
i deleted this process and created a new one
but it still working and filling data in the backend
Then you need to cancel the still active instances.